After several months where all my attempts went from bad to worse,
I ended up on this page
so, long story short:
- launch the GUI nvidia-settings
- select the Prime Profiles
- switch to Intel GPU
- then I was requested to reboot but I preferred also to add another change suggested at this other post
- I created as root the file /etc/modprobe.d/nvidia-user-registry.conf with just a single entry
options nvidia NVreg_RegistryDwords="OverrideMaxPerf=0x2"
- and finally
$ sudo update-initramfs -u $ sudo shutdown -r now